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Posted: 04/13/2007
Quit Inviting People to Church
For many years I used the same illustration when it came to my approach to witnessing. It was a story about waking my grandpa up in the middle of the night by waving a flashlight in his face. My point was that he did not respond very well to my method of awakening him and that if I wanted to wake him out of his spiritual slumber, I should gently whisper and pat him on the back. Similarly, my approach to sharing my faith was very non-confrontational; it was a relational approach. Getting to know as many people as possible and building relationships without verbally sharing the good news because they would see it in my life and how I treated them and others. This approach would be perfect for anyone running for mayor in town, but not for someone telling others what Jesus did on the cross for them and warning them of a judgment to come.
My approach of building relationships as a form of evangelism was resting on the fact that tomorrow is guaranteed. I cannot guarantee tomorrow. Tomorrow could be the end of my life, their life, or the world. Only God knows what tomorrow holds. Thinking that tomorrow is guaranteed is like playing God. That is not my place.
Having a sense of urgency with the good news has left the church because of its lackadaisical approach, believing that tomorrow is guaranteed. Church goers have been convinced that evangelism means inviting people to church. I would say quit inviting people to church and share the good news with passion, one on one. Churches are trying every shortcut possible when it comes to evangelism and are attempting to mass produce converts. Churches offer event after event and plead with the congregation to bring their neighbors for the chance that they may hear the gospel.
This past Christmas my family attended a musical at a church that featured live animals, professional quality lights and sound and high quality singers and musicians. It was top notch family entertainment. At the end of the performance, the pastor made a plea with every head down and every eye closed, for those that hadn’t accepted Jesus to raise their hand. Then they closed the prayer and told those that had made a decision for Christ to mark the salvation box on the visitor card. That was it. Everyone left. This is really what outreach/evangelism looks like today in the modern church. Events that draw a crowd and then slip Jesus in at the end to try to get a response. “Go unto all the world and get responses.” No, the bible says “…preach the gospel” just like Paul and John the Baptist and all of the early followers.
I think we can see that evangelism has taken all types of different shapes inside the church. We peg basketball leagues, egg hunts, musicals, food pantries, thrift stores, concerts and other events or activities as evangelism to give them validation. All of the above are fine, but they are not evangelism.
Why would the bible say that the harvest is ripe and the workers are few? Because there are only a few that are truly saved and are preaching the true gospel. Evangelism does not fit into your schedule and opportunities can come at any time. Christians can’t buy into this beat round the bush witnessing mentality. That’s like a doctor only telling you the name of the disease you have but not the deadly effects of the disease. Evangelism is a dirty job; it takes you out of your comfort zone and exposes your belief that Jesus is the only way. Believers are always dialoguing about eternal things because a person’s greatest need is repenting before Christ. That’s more important than the hunger pains in their stomach, the bills they have or their health condition. To love someone is to tell them the truth and the truth is that people need to repent for their sin. Jesus is not a life enhancement, He is life saving.
My grandpa wouldn’t mind me waking him up with a flashlight if the house was on fire, and I wouldn’t care one bit about his reaction if that was the case. He may not believe the house is on fire but I’m not concerned with what he believes, I’m exposing him to the truth. My job is to preach the gospel and the Holy Spirit does the rest.
Evangelism is a believer’s zeal for the lost, causing one to focus on the most important issue in life – repentance - more than anything else, not caring about the reaction or consequences of the truth being told.
Let’s take advantage of today with every opportunity to preach the gospel like there is no tomorrow.
Mark 15:16 - And He said to them, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation”.
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Waking up Grandpa
| Posted On: 09/11/08 09:32:44 AM |
Age 46, NEW ZEALAND |
Good article, yes we do need to open our mouths as well as walk with people (like Jesus in Luke 24)...however, I think if I was trying to save grandpa from the fire, I'd think, maybe even quickly pray about the most 'effective' way to do that. The point being, what will work best, given my primary motive is to get him away from the fire... not to just tell him the truth about the fire. I'm with the apostle Paul...i will try different approaches, be all things so I might 'save' some... I think grandpa will respond better if I have healthy trust relationship with him, don't you? how would he respond to a total stranger shining the torch light in his face?...We are about the same thing! thankyou God Bless.
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/23/07 11:39:07 PM |
Age 31, FM |
"Today is the day for relationship evangelism"
No. Jesus says, "today is the day for salvation."
The assemblu is for the breaking of bread/fellowship and the equiping of the saints. The assembly is not for unbelievers -- it's purpose does not make sense to them. If a non believer, though, happens upon the assmbly, the Bible says that the Holy Spirit will convict them of their sin and they will
[fall to their knees/or fall prostrate in the fear of the Lord].
Good article, and much contrary to the seeker sensitive/emerging church movement.
Just go forward in the love of Christ, speaking the Truth in love, and preach Christ crucified.
Again, good article. Thanks!
J. Travis A.
Homestead, FL
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/23/07 11:25:49 PM |
Age 31, FM |
"Today is the day for relationship evangelism"
No. Jesus says, "today is the day for salvation."
The assemblu is for the breaking of bread/fellowship and the equiping of the saints. The assembly is not for unbelievers -- it's purpose does not make sense to them. If a non believer, though, happens upon the assmbly, the Bible says that the Holy Spirit will convict them of their sin and they will
[fall to their knees/or fall prostrate in the fear of the Lord].
Good article, and much contrary to the seeker sensitive/emerging church movement.
Just go forward in the love of Christ, speaking the Truth in love, and preach Christ crucified.
Again, good article. Thanks!
J. Travis A.
Homestead, FL
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Re: just a little oopsie here
| Posted On: 04/20/07 10:36:31 AM |
Age 51, OH |
The verse quoted at the end of this excellent article should read Mark 16:15.
Now - go!!
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/19/07 09:15:02 PM |
Age 37, KS |
Finally, someone who is willing to take a stand on this issue! This haS pushed me one step further towards actually opening my mouth to share the entire gospel message with my unsaved friend. Thanks!
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/19/07 08:52:45 AM |
Age 42, OH |
I have spent many years trying to share my faith using a variety of methods. I believe that friendship evangelism has been the most effective means for me. (Of course we can not see all of the results of our efforts and how the Lord of the harvest makes things grow.) In my experience I have found that when you take time to love and serve someone they will respect the good news coming from your mouth. On the other hand, it seems to me that it would be more difficult for someone on the street who doesn't know me and who I may never see again, to accept the good news I share. Bottom line: God is too big and too powerful and too infinite to be limited to only one form of effective evangelism. When the Holy Spirit draws people He can do it through a church musical, street preaching and friendship evangelism. The important thing is not our "sacrifice" of time, effort and method but our obedience.
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/18/07 04:56:25 PM |
Age 51, AL |
Evangelism is urgently important. However, our first priority is to worship God in spirit and truth and bring honor and glory to his name. For this reason, and hopefully not for entertainment, we bring our very best offering of praise through music and other programs that are excellently done. He deserves our best! As we appropriately reach out to all men, let's not forget our chief purpose! I believe that when Jesus' name is lifted high in sincere worship, that men will be drawn to him. As our nation fights the battle to insure our freedom to worship in this way, please do not condemn it!
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/18/07 03:59:59 PM |
Age 45, IN |
Amen and Amen! I have been saying this for years now. We spend a lot of time on the streets sharing the Gospel and I almost never invite someone to church. I have found that inviting a lost person to church only fills the pews with seat warmers going through the motions of thinking that they are saved because the attended church. If you share the Gospel effectively and Biblically and the person understands what you are telling them they will want to gather with other believers to learn more. And if that happens to be in a church setting you will have an on fire Christian that will want to do for someone else what you did for them. Praise God for this report!! I hope everyone reads it and understands it!!
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| Posted On: 04/19/07 09:08:20 AM | | Age 42, OH | Why do we need a formula that limits who God is and what He can do? Do we truly know the scripture? Andrew simply brought his brother Simon to see Jesus. Perhaps Andrew was just simply ignorant of all the "correct" evangelism methods that could be used! One of the most exciting things I have seen recently is some new people in our church who accepted Christ.
They brought friends to the place where they heard the good news about Jesus. They simply didn't know any better! (By the way, the event was a Super Bowl outreach which would fit perfectly into some of the programs mentioned in the main article). By God's grace are we not all just beggars showing other beggars where to find bread? If the bread happens to be given away at our church would that be okay? A question for all of us that I often ask myself: Have we spent more time today involved with these types of discussions than we have praying for the lost and sharing our faith? If so, perhaps we have fallen into the category of people with which Jesus was always the most frustrated (Pharisees and Saducees). God help me! Click here to reply to this post
Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/18/07 03:56:00 PM |
Age 45, IN |
Amen and Amen! I have been saying this for years now. We spend a lot of time on the streets sharing the Gospel and I almost never invite someone to church. I have found that inviting a lost person to church only fills the pews with seat warmers going through the motions of thinking that they are saved because the attended church. If you share the Gospel effectively and Biblically and the person understands what you are telling them they will want to gather with other believers to learn more. And if that happens to be in a church setting you will have an on fire Christian that will want to do for someone else what you did for them. Praise God for this report!! I hope everyone reads it and understands it!!
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Re: Quit Inviting People to Church
| Posted On: 04/18/07 12:50:40 AM |
Age 48, FL |
This guy is exactly right and this whole thinking of trying to get people into church to hear the message is the very thinking that is behind the whole seeker sensitive idea of church services. It totally misunderstands the whole concept of church. It's also quite ineffective. Turn it around. What if the lost were to try to reach the saved by creating "Christian Bars?" or "Christian Friendly Porn." It'd be ridiculous. The light hates the darkness and vice-versa. We need to "GO" and snatch people from the darkness. The nation of Israel were to attract people to the light. It's the whole mixing of the Israel with the Church that gets this misunderstanding. It's no wonder that the church is sometimes called a sanctuary with an altar, ect... It's approached like a Jewish Synagogue.
Great article!
Kees
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